How Hema Went From Second Guessing Herself To Trusting Herself & Her Choices | Part 1
What happens when you find yourself in a romantic situation.
Maybe you’re seeing them for a few months or it could even be a few years.
But something just doesn’t feel right.
Fear is coming up.
But. You’re not sure.
Is this your fear?
Your abandonment issues?
Your old trust issues coming up again?
You start to feel like you’re going crazy and that you’re the one messing up the relationship.
You’re tying yourself up in knots. You’re second guessing yourself.
QUESTION: Are these your intrusive thoughts or are they intuitive nudges?
How do you know the difference between the two?
If it’s him or you that’s the problem?
Are you wound mates or soulmates?
Introducing Hema Patel of Reset & Rediscover
I might be being presumptuous here but I reckon we’ve all been there at some point - right?
Which is why I’m really excited to introduce Hema Patel of Reset & Rediscover as my very first guest on the The Open to Love Project, where we talk about Hema's first hand experience of how she navigated this EXACT situation and reclaimed her power.
Getting caught up in this kind of situation was massively affecting Hema’s ability to show up for herself, her life and her business.
It was draining her joy, happiness and peace.
On the other side of this experience, she was a completely different woman.
All of sudden, she was visible. She lit up and it was like freakin' night and day, which is why I approached her to do this interview with me.
I really believe that even just hearing stories like Hema’s, can completely change the trajectory of someone’s life.
Hearing the right words at the right time has profoundly helped me in my own life and business.
May Hema’s story touch those who need to hear it,
and may we all give each other permission to be free, light up and stay lit.
I really feel as a collective, when we heal ourselves, we are raising the bar and the standard for ALL.
Each time someone chooses love over fear, it ripples out into the collective.
From Being In A Toxic Relationship With Someone To Being In A Truthful Relationship With Herself… & Blossoming.
Have a listen as Hema shares her story of how she went from second guessing herself to trusting herself, her choices, decisions and actions, and therefore completely changing the trajectory of her whole life.
Hema’s story had me gasping, ooo-ing and ah-ing from the start.
In part 1 of 2 videos, we discuss:
- How she found herself at a festival describing her ideal kind of guy to someone and literally within minutes, the Universe delivers that EXACT kind of guy.
- The roller coaster of their first 2 years in their relationship.
- The extreme highs and lows.
- When her intuition kicked in to tell her something was OFF.
- What helped Hema to know the difference between love and fear, the intuitive nudges and intrusive thoughts, amidst the chaos and cocktail of emotions, gaslighting and second guessing herself.
- What was revealed during that particular break up.
- When it finally landed that loving too much isn’t a good thing.
Click play, watch and learn how Hema navigated the path from fear to love, transforming her pain into power along the way.
It's in the name of love that we, in a very twisted way, end up experiencing the polar opposite of it. Relationships are one of the ways, we can self sabotage, dim our light and dull our sparkle.
Getting with the wrong partner is an act of self sabotage, as the wrong match can weigh you down instead of lifting you up.
My takeaway from this convo?
These words from Hema:
You deserve better.
You deserve someone who is addiction free.
You deserve someone healthier.
You deserve better.
Thank you Hema x
P.S Part 2 of Hema’s story will be published Wednesday 19th. Click below to subscribe and we’ll let you know when it goes live.