How Hema Went From Second Guessing Herself To Trusting Herself And Her Choices | Part 2
If you missed part 1 of Hema’s story, you can catch it here.
And if you’re ready for Part 2, onwards we go.
From Being In A Toxic Relationship With Someone To Being In A Truthful Relationship With Herself… & Blossoming.
Have a listen as Hema shares her story of how she went from second guessing herself to trusting herself, her choices, decisions and actions, and therefore completely changing the trajectory of her whole life.
Hema’s story had me gasping, ooo-ing and ah-ing from the start and as we continue to dive in, this conversation goes from strength.
In part 2 of 2 videos, we discuss:
👉🏻 Why Hema decided to rekindle this romance with a guy who previously cheated on her and what lead Hema to believe that this was her forever man. Someone she thought she was gonna team up with and take over the world.
👉🏻 How the cracks began to appear and the moment her world fell apart the second time round.
👉🏻 Why Hema felt she was the one sabotaging what was otherwise, a healthy relationship.
👉🏻 How she finally knew that she needed to end that relationship once and for all.
👉🏻 How Hema got closure she needed and why she was grateful to have been cheated on.
👉🏻 How this relationship lead her to her calling.
Click play, watch and learn how Hema navigated the path from fear to love, transforming her pain into power along the way.
I really hope you got as much from this conversation as I did.
Key Takeaways…
We cannot trust others until we trust ourselves. PERIOD.
Trust is a relationship we develop with ourselves, it’s not a verb. There’s people in this world, who do not deserve your trust and that’s ok.
Self help tools help us to access the truth, but they CANNOT replace it.
Because yes, I have witnessed people looking to use self help tools to help them feel better without actually addressing why they were feeling crap in the first place. All emotions are guides. ALL of them, and they all form an important part of your intuition.
No tool can replace the truth. Ever.
And it is the truth that sets us free.
2. Love is peace. Safety is important.
Yes, fears comes up. Yes, issues come up. Yes, trauma can come up. But the predominant emotional baseline in a healthy, loving relationship is feeling peaceful and safe in the relationship, and in your body.
3. Being loving has to start with us first.
🎤 Mic drop on that one.
If you’re being more loving towards someone else before yourself, it’s co-dependency, it’s not healthy and it’s a form of self abandonment.
It all starts with you.
If you’ve enjoyed this conversation, get on the list as more are coming.
Brona x